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Interview with Deesha Sangani Author of The Diary of My Love

Join Anushkaa and Ayush on an emotional journey of love, loss, and healing in The Diary of My Love, where self-discovery leads to true connection.
on Oct 07, 2024

Anushkaa is young, dynamic and deeply passionate, with her goals clearly set out. Fresh out of college, she has just stepped into the corporate world, chasing her dreams. Life seems perfect.

Ayush meets Anushkaa on her first day at work, and feels a spark of liking rush through him. Torn between his heart and mind, he is sure he is smitten by her magical charm. A chance conversation with Anushkaa evokes emotions he hasn’t felt in years. She seems to be perfect. But does a perfect life exist?

When they meet again four years later, their hearts are broken and their will to love is lost. They heal each other’s hearts and help each other achieve their dreams. Finally, when they start living for themselves and each other, life plays a cruel card.

Anushkaa’s diary is her only true companion, holding within the pages the secret that nobody else will ever know. Join Ayush and Anushkaa on this rollercoaster of emotions, and take a peek into the secret Anushkaa has buried in The Diary of My Love.

Frontlist: What was the inspiration behind writing The Diary of My Love? Were there any personal experiences or observations that inspired the themes and characters in The Diary of My Love?

Deesha: My inspiration for writing "The Diary of My Love" stems from my deep observations of human emotions and relationships. I have always been fascinated by how people navigate love, loss, and personal growth in the everyday lives of people we come across. The themes and characters in the book are influenced by the belief in the power of love, self-discovery, and perseverance. Through the journey of Anushkaa and Ayush, my aim is to convey life's challenges, which can be overcome with determination and the support of loved ones.

My personal experiences and as a Certified Communication Coach and Personal Empowerment Coach have deeply influenced my writing. I come across different kinds of people who are bundled up with emotions day to day. I emphasize the importance of falling in love with oneself before seeking love from others. This message is woven throughout the narrative in all my eight books, and this encourages readers to follow their passion, never give up, and prioritize self-love and self-care as the foundation for any meaningful relationship in life.

Frontlist: Writing about love can be both rewarding and challenging. What was the most challenging part of writing the book?

Deesha: Writing about love indeed comes with its own set of rewards and challenges. For me, one of the most challenging aspects of writing "The Diary of My Love" was capturing the raw, authentic emotions of the characters. Love is a complex and multifaceted emotion, and portraying it in a way that resonates deeply with readers requires a delicate balance of vulnerability and honesty.

Another significant challenge was ensuring that the characters' journeys felt real and relatable.

I wanted to create a narrative that not only told a compelling love story but also inspired readers to reflect on their own lives. This meant delving into the intricacies of personal growth, self-love, and resilience and weaving these themes seamlessly into the plot. By doing so, I aimed to encourage readers to follow their passions, never give up, and understand the importance of loving themselves before seeking love from others.

These challenges, while daunting, ultimately made the writing process more rewarding, as they allowed me to create a story that was both heartfelt and inspiring.

Most rewarding was that readers got back to me asking to know more about Anushkaa's story and what happened next. I wrote the sequel, The Journey of Our Love, to answer what happened next for all my lovely readers.

Frontlist: How did you balance the desire to tell a compelling story with the need to be authentic and vulnerable in your writing?

Deesha: Writing "The Diary of My Love" and my other books like "The Journey of Our Love," "In Search of Her," and "A Love Story by Destiny" have profoundly impacted my understanding of love and relationships. Through the process of creating these stories, I have delved deeply into the emotional landscapes of characters, exploring the nuances of love, loss, and healing. This exploration has given me a greater appreciation for the complexities and resilience inherent in human relationships. I have come to an understanding that love is not just about the highs but also about navigating the lows with grace and empathy.

Moreover, writing these books has reinforced the importance of self-love and personal growth. I emphasize that before we can truly love others, we must first learn to love ourselves.

This theme is prevalent in my work, where characters often embark on journeys of self-discovery and empowerment. My writing journey has not only enriched my own understanding of relationships but also aims to motivate others to embrace their own paths with courage and resilience.

Frontlist: Were there any challenges in conveying the complexities of love and relationships in a way that would resonate with readers of different backgrounds and experiences?

Deesha: Conveying the complexities of love and relationships in a way that resonates with readers from diverse backgrounds and experiences poses several challenges. One significant challenge was ensuring that the emotions and situations depicted in the stories felt authentic and relatable to a wide audience. Love and relationships are deeply personal and can vary greatly depending on cultural, social, and individual contexts.

I had to strike a balance between specific, detailed character experiences and universal themes that everyone could connect with. This required a deep understanding of human emotions and a careful crafting of characters who, despite their unique backgrounds, embodied feelings and experiences that many readers could see themselves in.

Another challenge was maintaining cultural sensitivity while portraying diverse relationships. I aimed to respect and accurately represent different cultural contexts without resorting to stereotypes. This involved extensive research and a commitment to authenticity, ensuring that the characters' experiences were portrayed with nuance and depth. By focusing on universal themes such as love, loss, and self-discovery and by creating multi-dimensional characters, I was able to craft stories that resonated with a broad spectrum of readers. My dedication to emotional honesty and vulnerability in my writing allowed readers from various backgrounds to connect deeply with my characters and their journeys.

Frontlist: How has the experience of writing The Diary of My Love impacted your own understanding of love and relationships?

Deesha: Writing "The Diary of My Love" and my other books, "The Journey of Our Love," "In Search of Her," and "A Love Story by Destiny," has profoundly impacted my understanding of love and relationships. Through the process of creating these stories, I have delved deeply into the emotional landscapes of characters, exploring the nuances of love, loss, and healing.

Moreover, writing these books has reinforced the importance of self-love and personal growth.

Frontlist: How has the experience of writing The Diary of My Love impacted your own understanding of love and relationships?

Deesha: On World Mental Health Day, a simple yet powerful takeaway from "The Diary of My Love" could be: "Healing is a journey best traveled with love and support. "The story of Anushkaa and Ayush reminds us that even in our darkest moments, the presence of a caring companion can make all the difference. It's a beautiful reminder to seek and offer support, emphasizing the importance of connection and empathy in our mental health journeys.

Communication is the key to seeking or giving love and support. Hence, we must strive to work on and improve our communication skills. I have researched extensively and written a book on how to improve our communication skills, which will be released later this year. I hope it will help you find the support you need.